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Austin Sex and Intimacy Coaching

Most of us long to touch and be touched in a timeless, heartfelt way. We long to feel accepted and cherished for the unique, erotic, sensual beings we are. Often this natural, spontaneous connection between our selves and our sexuality is lost.

How can we reclaim the precious, soft parts of ourselves which like a compass steer us to freedom and grace? As a sexual empowerment educator, I empower you to choose what happens on your body. You develop a healthy erotic self-awareness, self-trust and expanded expression.

No longer do you shut down, go along with or tolerate unwanted touch. I guide you by simple activities into ways to get the connection and touch you are looking for. You experience an intimacy that is vibrant, awake and soul nourishing.

In private and group settings, I offer you intimacy coaching that is clothes on, sensual, but not sexual. And I offer hands-on, erotic body work (find out if  Sensual Massage is right for you) if you want to feel more comfortable in your skin, feel more sensation and pleasure in your body and share sensually more often with others.

I cover topics like sex & aging, fantasy role playing, power and surrender (safe BDSM), Tantra, prolonging pleasure, shyness, gender-role curiosity, mindful masturbation, pornography, and more.

Charla Hathaway has helped thousands of people in profound and astonishingly intimate ways. She’s a certified Sexological Bodyworker, Sexologist, Tantra educator, and sexual empowerment coach for individuals and couples.  Speaker, workshop leader and best-selling author of 8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Encounters that Inspire Great Sex and, available in nine languages, Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal, Charla believes accurate and positive sex information will change your life.  

  Play the 3 Min Game: How to Give and Get the Touch you Want

 Friday, June 20, 7-10 pm, Central Austin, $55/person/or bring a friend $50/each. A clothes-on, no sexual touch workshop for couples and singles

The 3 Minute Game provides structure for you to tune into your body, your desires, ask for what you want, and respond to other’s requests. Playing is easy–you gain confidence and new ways to get more touch in life.  You feel safe, your body relaxes, and you experience more pleasure.

Often we say ‘no’ to intimate touch because we are afraid things won’t go our way–or spin out of control–so we  stop before we start…and end up feeling lonely and touch-starved. In this workshop you learn one-way touch (with permission) that translates into choice, trust and safety.  You’ll learn touch that is ‘for you” and “for me” and why knwoing the difference is important.

Players of the game often remark, “time stopped, I could feel more, I didn’t have to worry about guessing or getting it right, everything slowed down.” In this context, you may be surprised how comfortable it is to give and receive touch in a group setting. In just a few rounds of the game, your performance anxiety and fear melt away and your natural curiosity and self-expression emerge.

Playing the game takes your intimacy skills to the next level and opens new doors. Workshop activities are sensual, not sexual, and clothes remain on. Couples may practice with each other, and singles are welcome.

To register: call Charla – 512 626 5037 or use PayPal (below):


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Charla Hathaway, certified sex educator, sexological bodyworker and intimacy coach, is author of 8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Encounters that Inspire Great Sex for a Lifetime, and Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal (available in nine languages). Charla, founder of Austin’s BodyJoy Intimacy School, has helped thousands find new ways to touch, talk and play that feel safe, sensual and satisfying. Sign up for her monthly newsletter.