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Charla To Speak At Sexual Freedom Summit

You are invited to hear Dr. Charla Hathaway, Dr. Susan Kaye, and more great speakers at this year’s Sexuality and Aging Institute on August 14.

The Sexuality and Aging Institute is being held in conjunction with the  Sexual Freedom Summit, which runs from Aug. 13-16. The Summit brings together a fascinating combination of professionals, consumers, and advocates for conversations about sexual rights and opportunities for change.  Register today!

Dr. Charla and Dr. Susan

Dr. Charla and Dr. Susan

BodyJoy Intimacy Coaching

Most of us long to touch and be touched in a timeless, heartfelt way. We long to feel accepted and cherished for the unique, erotic, sensual beings we are. Often this natural, spontaneous connection between our selves and our sexuality is lost.

How can we reclaim the precious, soft parts of ourselves which like a compass steer us to freedom and grace?  As your sexual empowerment coach, I guide you into intimacy that is vibrant, awake and soul nourishing.

In private sessions, you take your loving and pleasure skills to the next level.  Our play is safe, satisfying, and consensual.  You grow in erotic self-awareness, trust and expression.

You learn why knowing if the touch is ‘for you’ or ‘for me’ makes all the difference.  You practice sexual empowerment that comes from researching desires, expressing them, and finding your authentic yes and no.  Erotic massage sessions teach you how to deepen your pleasure.  Coaching sessions teach whole body pleasuring, prolonging erections, becoming more orgasmic, Tantra, sex and aging, shyness, and fantasy play (BDSM).  Email me what you’d like to experience next on your sexual journey.

Read Charla’s newest blog Busting Myths on Sex and Aging

 Upcoming Classes & Events

Charla Hathaway, PhD., has helped thousands of people learn new ways to touch, talk and play.  She’s a certified Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra educator, sexual empowerment coach and erotic bodyworker.  She’s author of 8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Sex for a Lifetime and Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal, translated into nine languages. Her documentary, Uncle Bob is Drssing Like a Lady, just won the Audience Choice Award at Austin’s first Erotic Film Festival. 

Finding the Sweet Spot

Day Workshop with Charla

Saturday, July 18, 9am-5pm, Central Austin, $85/person or $160 w/ a friend


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Mmm, that glorious moment when we are giving (or getting) exactly the touch that feels good on our body! Sometimes we find that “sweet spot” spontaneously, but more often, we find it through clear communication and feedback.

How many of us say “yes” to things we don’t actually want out of guilt or a fear of losing connection? Learn through structured, sweet activities to offer and request touch, negotiate the touch you want, and give verbal feedback on the touch you receive.

Practice good erotic communication skills that make you feel safe, relaxed, and sensual. Participants often remark, “I could feel more. I didn’t have to worry about guessing or getting it right. Everything slowed down.” Expressing clear boundaries makes your playing field bigger…and more exciting!

In this workshop, you will expand your erotic self awareness, trust, and expression. Anxiety about performance melts away and a natural curiosity emerges. Activities are sensual, not sexual. Couples may choose to practice together; Singles are welcome. Email Charla for location