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Charla To Speak At Sexual Freedom Summit

You are invited to hear Dr. Charla Hathaway, Dr. Susan Kaye, and more great speakers at this year’s Sexuality and Aging Institute on August 14.

The Sexuality and Aging Institute is being held in conjunction with the  Sexual Freedom Summit, which runs from Aug. 13-16. The Summit brings together a fascinating combination of professionals, consumers, and advocates for conversations about sexual rights and opportunities for change.  Register today!

Dr. Charla and Dr. Susan

Dr. Charla and Dr. Susan

BodyJoy Intimacy Coaching

Most of us long to touch and be touched in a timeless, heartfelt way. We long to feel accepted and cherished for the unique, erotic, sensual beings we are. Often this natural, spontaneous connection between our selves and our sexuality is lost.

How can we reclaim the precious, soft parts of ourselves which like a compass steer us to freedom and grace?  As your sexual empowerment coach, I guide you into intimacy that is vibrant, awake and soul nourishing.

In private sessions, you take your loving and pleasure skills to the next level.  Our play is safe, satisfying, and consensual.  You grow in erotic self-awareness, trust and expression.

You learn why knowing if the touch is ‘for you’ or ‘for me’ makes all the difference.  You practice sexual empowerment that comes from researching desires, expressing them, and finding your authentic yes and no.  Erotic massage sessions teach you how to deepen your pleasure.  Coaching sessions teach whole body pleasuring, prolonging erections, becoming more orgasmic, Tantra, sex and aging, shyness, and fantasy play (BDSM).  Email me what you’d like to experience next on your sexual journey.

Read Charla’s newest blog Busting Myths on Sex and Aging

Charla Hathaway, PhD., has helped thousands of people learn new ways to touch, talk and play.  She’s a certified Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra educator, sexual empowerment coach and erotic bodyworker.  She’s author of 8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Sex for a Lifetime and Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal, translated into nine languages. Her documentary, Uncle Bob is Drssing Like a Lady, just won the Audience Choice Award at Austin’s first Erotic Film Festival. 

Upcoming Classes & Events

Love and Intimacy Retreat With Charla & Nicole

October 23 – 25, San Antonio, TX

Are you ready to experience a miracle in your relationships? Join with others who are taking love, intimacy and sensuality to the next level. If you desire to move past the barriers that keep you apart…, you are ready!

  • Engage with others while staying connected to yourself.
  • Enjoy playful and powerful exercises in which you express your joy, depth and vulnerability with others.
  • Experience what comes up in each moment with calm and curiosity.

What will I learn?

Click the image below to view a full page flyer (PDF) for full details on the retreat. Then return to this page for registration information (below).

Love and Intimacy Retreat 2015

How Do I Register?

Securely using the PayPal Button below

or call Charla @ 512-626-5037

Meet Your Facilitators

Nicole and CharlaNicole Verwey, LMFT, MS, Licensed Psychotherapist, Certified Life Coach, Relationship Coach and Workshop Facilitator, teaches people through play and coaching “How to Win the Love Game”. A gifted healer, native of Holland, Nicole is initiated as an Oneness Blessing Giver and bestows blessings liberally. 512-670-3955, or visit my website:

Charla Hathaway, PhD, Certified Sexologist, Tantra educator and intimacy coach has inspired over 3000 people to enjoy greater sacred, sensual embodiment. She authored “8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Encounters that Inspire Great Sex”, and best selling “Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure: (available in nine languages. 512-626-5037 or visit my website: