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Austin Sex and Intimacy Coaching

Most of us long to touch and be touched in a timeless, heartfelt way. We long to feel accepted and cherished for the unique, erotic, sensual beings we are. Often this natural, spontaneous connection between our selves and our sexuality is lost.

How can we reclaim the precious, soft parts of ourselves which like a compass steer us to freedom and grace?  As your sexual empowerment coach, I guide you into intimacy that is vibrant, awake and soul nourishing.

In private sessions, with clothes on or off, with coaching and/or erotic touch, you take your loving and pleasure skills to the next level.  Our play is safe, satisfying, and consensual.  You grow in erotic self-awareness, trust and expression.

As a Sexual Empowerment Coach I teach prolonging pleasure (and erections), becoming more orgasmic, Tantra or sacred sexuality, aging and sexuality, shyness, fantasy play (BDSM), gender play, mindful masturbation, and becoming multi-orgasmic.  Email me what you’d like to experience next on your sexual journey.

Finding the Sweet Spot

Day Workshop with Charla

Saturday, October 18, 9am-5pm, Central Austin, $85/person or $160 w/ a friend

Mmm, that glorious moment when we are giving (or getting) exactly the touch that feels good on our body!  Sometimes we find that “sweet spot” spontaneously, but more often, we find it through clear communication and feedback.

How many of us say “yes” to things we don’t actually want out of guilt or a fear of losing connection?  In many ways ‘no’ is the most daring and intimate response possible–if I can hear ‘no’ then I can trust your ‘yes.’

Let’s practice finding that sweet spot of mutual ‘yes’–through a series of juicy experiential exercises where we learn to offer and request touch, negotiate the touch we want, and give verbal feedback on the touch we receive. Participants often remark, “I could feel more. I didn’t have to worry about guessing or getting it right. Everything slowed down.”

In this workshop you’ll learn to expand your playing field by expressing clear boundaries.  You’ll grow in erotic self awareness, trust, and expression.  Anxiety and performance pressure melt away, and a natural curiosity  emerges.  Activities are sensual, not sexual, and clothes stay on. Couples may choose to practice together; Singles are welcome.  Email Charla for location!


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Charla Hathaway has helped thousands of people learn new ways to touch, talk and play.  She’s a certified Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra educator, sexual empowerment coach and erotic bodyworker.  She’s author of 8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Sex for a Lifetime and Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal, translated into nine languages. Her documentary, Uncle Bob is Drssing Like a Lady, just won the Audience Choice Award at Austin’s first Erotic Film Festival.