Finding the Sweet Spot: The Lover’s Touch
Austin, April 21, Friday, 7-10 pm, $35/person, for individuals & paired friends
Mmm, that glorious moment when we are giving (or getting) exactly the touch that feels good on our body! Sometimes we find that “sweet spot” spontaneously, but more often, we find it through clear communication and feedback.
How many of us say “yes” to things we don’t actually want out of guilt or a fear of losing connection? Most of us! Learn another way to give and get sensual touch that feels safe, welcomed, and comfortable. Charla’s short, structured activities will help you find new ways to ask for what you want, give verbal feedback, and respond yes or no with ease to others. All touching in this class is non-sexual and clothes remain on. You never have to touch or be touched by anyone except who you choose. You may choose to observe and learn that way. All choices are honored.
In this class, you get back into the ‘driver’s seat’ of your body and find out how to get what you want and nothing more. Students often remark, “I could feel more. I didn’t have to worry about guessing or getting it right. Everything slowed down.” Practicing clear boundaries wakes up your skin, expands your options and empowers your confidence!
The Sweet Spot workshop is for you if:
- You know there is something deeper in sex, but not sure how to find it
- You love and care for each other, but can’t quite find the key to loving your love life
- You have been experimenting with Tantra, but find it awkward and contrived
- You’re a better giver than receiver; you feel vulnerable receiving; your pleasure comes from giving to others because it’s hard to access your own pleasure
- You want to have more fun!
It’s a workshop for friends, lovers, teachers, mind and body therapists, erotic educators, and surrogate partners! You walk away with tools to bring more satisfying touch into your life.
Charla Hathaway, PhD., intimacy coach, Austin, Texas, founder of the BodyJoy Intimacy School, has helped over 6,000 students in 7,000 hours over the last 15 years find intimate ways to touch, talk & play that feel safe, soulful, & sexy. Author of Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal (available in 7 languages), she teaches a new online course in intimacy & pleasure with her videos, ebook, and personal phone coaching, 7EroticNights. Charla believes the heart of erotic joy is empowering students to express clear choice & consent when sharing their bodies.