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Erotic Massage: Surrender into Pleasure

 April 22, Sat, 9-5 pm, Austin,

for individuals & paired friends, $120/person, $220/couple 

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Mmm, that glorious moment when you are getting exactly the touch you want, how sweet! Turns out finding this ‘sweet spot’ is more about clear communication than any fancy strokes!  Who knew?

It’s easy to find a video of snazzy strokes for sexy body parts, but if that’s not what the ‘receiver’ wants, it’s not so hot. This class is about finding out what the receiver wants. Sweet. It may sound simple, but it rarely happens. And on the other side—when you are on the table, how do you know what you want, much less trust it and communicate it?  I cover that too. Yes, it’s possible…to get just what you want and nothing more–each time! And feel comfortable and free doing it!  Don’t worry, I’ll even include some fancy strokes, on a real live models, both male and female!

This workshop is right for you if you ever ‘go along’ with receiving touch that may be close, but not exactly what you want. You’ll learn new ways to connect that feel safe, sexy and successful.  Ahh, now you can relax and feel more pleasure, joy, and wow, intimacy!

This class includes nudity and sexual touch. It is intended only for those who are *already* comfortable with nudity in a group setting. Nothing is reqqiured. You may keep some of your clothes on for the entire time (including your time on the table) or not, and you may choose to be touched in whatever way you like – sexual or not. If you come with a partner you are welcome to stay together (or not) according to your preference. The workshop is excellent for everyone, single or paired, who desires more touch in their life; it’s great practice in erotic communication for friends, lovers, therapists, sex educators & bodyworkers, & surrogates.

About ‘gender balancing’: often when creating an erotic event, teachers allow only equal numbers of male and female participants. I do not – for many reasons. We are learning here, not hooking up. You can learn these skills with persons of any genital configuration and any gender. Plus, not everyone fits neatly into the categories you might think they do. Quite often, setting aside gender in order to learn and explore is profoundly liberating. Many people have told me that was the biggest ‘Aha’. So – if you want to touch only people of a particular gender, your best bet is to bring one of them with you. A note to single women – it’s easy to feel like you are responsible to be available. You are not. As the educator I make you have what you need to learn and to feel safe. C’mon along. I’m going to show you how to be touched in the way you want.

Charla Hathaway, PhD., intimacy coach, Austin, Texas, founder of the BodyJoy Intimacy School, has helped over 6,000 students in 7,000 hours over the last 15 years find intimate ways to touch, talk & play that feel safe, soulful, & sexy.  Author of Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal (available in 7 languages), she teaches a new online course in intimacy & pleasure w/ her videos, ebook, and personal phone coaching, 7EroticNightsCharla believes the heart of erotic pleasure is empowering students to express clear choice & consent when sharing their bodies. 


The perfect prequel to this workshop is the evening before before: Finding the Sweet Spot–Giving and getting just the Touch you Want.  It’s clothed and clarifies the real differences between receiving and giving (which is not what you think.)

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