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I am a mature woman, comfortable and wise in my body…

As a sex and intimacy coach, I help people enjoy juicier relationships by showing them new ways to touch, talk and play.  I guide women, men, and partners into erotically awake and nourishing relationships.  I believe erotic education is a basic human right and positive, accurate sex information can change your life.

I’ve trained in Tantra, Esalen massage and Sensual Massage. Through my studies at the Body Electric School I am a certified Sacred Intimate and a Certified Sexological Bodyworker.  I received my PhD. in clinical sexology at the Institute for the Advanced Studies of Human Sexuality studying how to teach different aspects of intimacy.  My books on enhancing intimate relationships, 8 Erotic Nights and Erotic Massage, have been translated into many languages.  My innovative ‘at home’ course in pleasure & intimacy for singles and partners, 7 Erotic Nights, is taught online by videos and ebook, and is supported by my weekly, personal coaching calls.  My monthly newsletter, BodyJoy, announces my classes, events & retreats.

I’m a classical violinist who now plays the instrument of the Body Erotic. I’ve lived abroad, love languages, practice yoga on a sheepskin, enjoy life drawing and tango.  Mom taught me to travel in a small backpack whether it’s for two days or two years, and Dad taught me to play the piano by ear and love Broadway tunes.

I’m grateful for the gifts aging brings to our bodies and relationships. I feel more pleasure, curiosity, aliveness, and sensation in my body now than in any previous time. I love sharing with you what I’ve learned to make my mature years the most sensual and loving years ever.  Men are ready to slow up and want more intimacy; Women are ready to stop apologizing for their innate eroticism and express their erotic truth.

I have worked with thousands of people in astonishing intimate ways. You, my friends, clients  and students serve as a reflection to my own healing, enlightenment and erotic wonderment. I counsel all seeking BodyJoy to reclaim relationships that are vulnerable, open-hearted, safe and joyful.  I invite you to reclaim your birthright to pleasure and your natural potential for ecstasy, health and joy.