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Valentine’s Tantra Puja: Longing for Love

Feb 13, Sat. 7-9 pm, for singles, couples/paired friends, Galaxy Studio 1700 S. Lamar , $25-40 single/pairs

Enjoy an evening of adult play where you, or you and your partner, explore your natural, inquisitive nature.  Intimacy coach, Charla Hathaway, leads you in simple and elegant encounters with various partners that feel safe and inviting, and are designed to inspire your attention, curiosity, and play.

Guided activities will spark your natural ability to enjoy the moment, experience your body’s sensations, and be spontaneous with others.  The exercises will open your senses, nourish your soul, and heartfully connect you with others.

A Tantra Puja is a safe and nurturing evening to meet others and cultivate a deeper bond between couples. Wear comfortable clothing, no nudity or sexual touching.  A Puja is a timeless tradition that encourages us to see past the personal and into our Divine nature. Come celebrate our universal Longing for Love this Valentine’s weekend.

To register go to www.paypal.com and deposit in charla@bodyjoy.org $25/person or $40/paired friends. Space is limited to 50. Entrance at the event is $30/person, $50/pairs (if available).

Tantrika Charla Hathaway, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra educator, coach and best-selling author of 8 Erotic Nights, and Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure, available in nine languages is the founder of Austin’s BodyJoy Intimacy School, a frequent radio show guest, speaker and retreat leader. Visit her at www.bodyjoy.org, or call 512-626-5037

Female Erotic Massage: Relaxing into Safety and Surrender

Demonstration class for men, women, singles or couples, March 7, Sunday, 2-5 pm, central Austin, $85 single/$160 paired friends, call Charla 512-626-5037 or email charla@bodyjoy.org

Women have not learned to be good receivers; they try to take care of the giver instead of enjoying their pleasure. Women are conditioned to act like any touch is fine. Most women only experience G-spot massage as a prelude to intercourse.

Women, learn how to allow yourself profound pleasure, and Men, practice your touch techniques guided by a skilled bodyworker, Charla Hathaway, certified sexologist and author of Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal,available in nine languages. Charla demonstrates on a woman model, an erotic educator herself, how to make a woman feel safe and relaxed so she may surrender deeply. Participants do not massage each other; you’re invited (your choice) to try the strokes on the model.

Charla covers preparing a woman to “receive,” the difference between male and female touch, full body strokes, genital massage, and external and internal g-spot massage.  Such an intimate learning opportunity from two experts is rare and precious.

Men, practice non-goal oriented touching and learn techniques that enhance and prolong a woman’s ecstatic realms.  Women, learn new language for getting what you want and receiving fully. Men, women, single or paired, learn sacred, sensual massage that relaxes, rejuvenates, heals and connect your hearts.

To register go to www.paypal.com and send $85/single $160 couple, credit card payment to: charla@bodyjoy.org. You’ll receive confirmation and directions to class.  Limited enrollment, this class sells out.

Testimonials: “To actually see genital strokes demonstrated on a live person was incredible.  I learned more in a couple hours than in ten years of marriage.” Robert, 37

“I’m 54 years old and I can think of at least three major things that I learned. You can read all you want, you can talk to other men all you want, but hearing it from two expert women and practicing the strokes makes all the difference.”  John

Charla Hathaway, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra educator, intimacy coach and best-selling author of 8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Encounters that Inspire Great Sex for a Lifetime, and Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal (available in nine languages), founded Austin’s BodyJoy Intimacy School, and is a frequent radio show guest, speaker and retreat leader. Visit her at www.bodyjoy.org, 512-626-5037

Male Erotic Massage Demonstration: class for men, women, singles, or paired friends

(Unscheduled)

Many men have not experienced massage without feeling pressure to perform or “give back.” Often men have not learned to experience the sensual journey instead of focusing on a destination. Many have yet to discover the pleasure of perineum and prostate exploration.

Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Charla Hathaway, and best-selling author of Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal available in nine languages, demonstrates on a male model how to give a man a sensual, sacred massage. She covers male anatomy, how to prepare a man for “receiving” deep bodywork, full body strokes, genital massage, and external and internal prostate massage.  Participants do not massage each other.  You are invited (your choice) to try the strokes on the model.

Similar to women, men are naturally capable of multiple, whole body orgasms and waves of bliss. A man receiving this kind of massage may enjoy extended Erotic Trance and orgasmic realms. Sensual/healing massage prolongs a man’s potency, pleasure, and health including prostate health.

Erotic Massage connects both giver and receiver in moment-to-moment awareness without the goal of orgasm.  It is complete in itself. Both partners practice presence, sexual breathing, noticing the body, and authentic communication.

Men and Women, come to this class if you desire to honor and touch the male body profoundly and learn new ways to encourage a man’s deep surrender, emotional release and spiritual connection.  To register go to www.paypal.com and send $85/person credit card payment to: charla@bodyjoy.org. You’ll receive confirmation and directions to class.  Limited enrollment, this class sells out.

Charla Hathaway is a Certified Sexologist, Tantra educator, intimacy coach, and author of bestselling Erotic Massage and 8 Erotic Nights. Charla is a frequent radio show guest, speaker and retreat leader. Visit her at www.bodyjoy.org, call 512-626-5037, or email charla@bodyjoy.org

Fundamentals of Intimacy: Relaxing into Safety and Surrender

(unscheduled)

As we enjoy the growing sun of this awakening season, we long to touch the inner light of our love and truth.  We seek peace and joy in our relationships; we desire intimate sharing that is transparent, authentic, and conscious.

In this workshop, you experience elegant activities that teach the fundamental steps of creating intimacy with yourself and community.  You experience your body from the inside out, discover how awareness heightens sensations, and express your experiences moment to moment in unarguable truths.

You experience new ways to hear, see, and touch another that invite more safety, relaxation, and surrender. In a comfortable and sacred setting, you cultivate new skills to deepen attention, lead and follow, give and receive, and say hello and goodbye naturally with a partner.

You learn how to engage with others while staying connected to yourself; loving another while being yourself.  In our rich afternoon of exploration, you take away simple techniques to create enhanced relationships that feel more safe, relaxed, and spontaneous.

Exercises are sensual, not sexual. Singles and partners will benefit by changing partners and sharing in triads, a format that shifts awareness from the personal to the universal for powerful insights.  Wear comfortable clothing.  Register by logging on to www.paypal.com and depositing $35 in charla@body.org.