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  1. sandrar

    Hi! I was surfing and found your blog post… nice! I love your blog. 🙂 Cheers! Sandra. R.

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    1. Charla

      Thanks, so great to hear from you. Appreciate it! If in Austin drop by to say hi! I’ll make you tea. Charla

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  2. Carson

    How about doing a show on how sex can help a handicapped person, cures depression, gives them great excercise etc.

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    1. Charla

      My friend Rachael that i met at SXSW 2012 made a great movie viewed and well received at the festival about working with handicapped men called Scarlet Rose. I hope you can find it. Very touching and healing. Charla

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  3. Larry

    Charla,

    Should I embrace my strong fetish for heels and women’s feet? Or should I “cure” myself of it. It doesn’t impair my work or cause me to engage in any illegal behavior.

    Larry

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    1. Charla

      Larry, by all means embrace it–follow your heart–those things pick us not the other way around. I have always wanted to have my feet worshipped, please include me in the realization of your heartfelt desires. When did we stop playing at sex, when can we start again. Charla

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  4. Drew

    Charla,
    Your podcasts are wonderful 🙂
    I am in my late thirties and have an almost insatiable sexual appetite. I also have this intense fetish around women that are much older than I am. When I have spoken to others about this I get replies that seem very shameful ad that I need to fix myself in some way because I am not “normal”. How do you suggest I handle this? Would love to hear your feedback and expertise.

    Drew

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    1. Charla

      Drew,

      There is much shame around age differences and sexual attraction. Probably because in the past it seemed to be about older men and younger women, and often was secretive and manipulating. The generations have much to share, teach and enjoy when done by two consenting adults exercising choice and judgment. A mature woman who can express what she wants is a valuable asset to a young man’s sexual growth. And vice verse.

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  5. Ron

    I have relationship issues where I can’t get very intimate. I feel that I want a woman to be dominate sexually and I feel embarrassed by this I have fantasies about my wife having two lovers is this normal?

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    1. Charla

      It’s all normal, we’ve been so shamed and given such a small box to fit in, that we forget how to play, take turns (at dominance) and enjoy the unpredictable. Come to my Nov class in touch and massage and come in to learn a playful game at power and surrender in intimacy! Charla

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  6. Rod and Pixie M.

    Charla, we (Rod & Pixie) haven’t seen you for awhile but still follow what you do. Have you ever thought about having a class on swinging, the potential dangers, the challenges, and how it can be considered the ultimate gift one mate can give another by sharing there mate with others. How the average swingers marriages last longer than the average monogamous marriage. We know swingers who have been married 50 years, Pixie and I have been swinging for almost 6 years and are closer to each other now than at any time in our thirty years of marriage. You could even end the class with a little soft swap touching between couples (who want to participate) and how it can create fantasies a couple can go home with and use in there bedroom play time for months to add extra excitement to there marriage and keep the fire burning bright. Just a thought, Rod & Pixie

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    1. Charla

      I’d be happy to make swinging feel even more safe, consensual, and explorative—a day workshop. We’d have a warm touching and insightful time together. Good point about swinging and statistics on longevity of marriage! Good for you. I know it can bring people together, if the couple is strong to begin with!

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