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erotic exploration for menSex and Intimacy Coaching for Men

As men you are often concerned with giving someone else pleasure or doing her.  You can become so preoccupied about performing that you miss your own pleasure.  Sex can seem like a set of obstacles (for you both!)   By trying to please her and give her an orgasm, you lose touch with feeling your own body’s sensations.

 

Further, as a man you’ve been conditioned from a young age not to trust your “feeling body” or show your emotions, which makes it hard to connect with women who have been encouraged to express emotions.  Often to keep from coming too early you would disassociate from your body. You learned to masturbate quickly, silently, and routinely which does not prepare you for a long, sustained dance of lovemaking with a partner.

 

In my private coaching sessions, old habits fall away and you learn to relate to your body in new ways. You take home new ways to touch, talk and play with a partner for better sex and renewed intimacy.  You learn to how to feel more sensation everywhere and experience prolonged arousal. You reclaim the natural joy of noticing, experiencing and being in your body rather than thinking, judging and controling.

 

Sex coaching for Men may involve issues on:

  1. Natural Aging: Understanding the changes in libido, arousal, stimulation needs, and opportunities that come with maturing–Getting older/Getting better.
  2. Erections: Gaining mastery over if and when to ejaculate.
  3. The Male Prostate: Learning about the male “G” spot for pleasure and health.
  4. Evolutionary Masturbation: Changing solo sex routines that will improve your partner sex.
  5. Intimacy: Reconnecting sexually with yourself and enticing a less interested partner back into the game.
  6. Life changes: Gaining confidence after divorce, medical issues, or death of loved ones.
  7. Shyness: Overcoming lack of experience or a negative body image.
  8. Sacred Sexuality: Joining Eros and Spirit for heartfelt, prolonged connection.
  9. Becoming multi-orgasmic: Separating orgasm from ejaculation for health, potency, and pleasure.
  10. Power and Surrender in Intimacy: Exploring conscious power exchange and fantasy play.

 

As men you bring the “consciousness” to lovemaking. You determine the depth. If you want passionate surrender from your partner, you must go deeper into your own experience…deeper into your body, deeper into your surrender, deeper into your pleasure and learn to penetrate your Beloved not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually.

 

Coaching sessions are more than technique. It’s much deeper. It’s what makes all your technique work. Guided by an expert, you journey, moment by moment and breath by breath, deep into the erotic core of your sexuality. You grow in erotic self-trust, self-expression, and self-care. You become a Sensual Virtuoso.  Make an investment in your lifelong pleasure and intimacy, email or call me for a session today.

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