A friend shared a dating book with me that made a huge difference in his shy, inexperienced life—you’d never recognize that in him now! I gleaned a few new tips. Don’t read on if you’re stuck on finding ‘The One.’ I’m personally giving it up for awhile.
How to Enjoy Dating
Never put all your hope in ONE MAN (or WOMAN). There’s a 100 just like him/her, and thousands better.
You’re better off alone than with the wrong man (or woman, you get the idea…)
Flirt—with every man in every conversation! Stay in condition. Bust his Balls!
DOM—Date Other Men: Being needy sucks. (DOW!)
Every man is practice for the next.
You miss every shot you don’t take (from a pro basketball player!)
Meet, Attract, Close:
- Say ‘hi,’ engage him, let him know you’re interested
- Get his contact—then leave—he needs space.
- Have a strong close—don’t let it dwindle.
Be humorous—It shows confidence. Shows you can take a step back and see the bigger picture.
Build trust—tell the truth, hold to your word, no misleading.
Unpredictable is good. Be a little mysterious.
Every man gets a 90 day probationary period.
Work on your life, not his.
Do what’s right for you, because no one else will.
You’ll never know what he’s thinking. So don’t even try.
Make no decision when you’re feeling insecure, wait till your attitude and power is back.
All unhappiness stems from desire for things to be different.
Forget what you want, there’s only what is. Make it work for you.
You’ll never be happy with what you want, till you’re happy with what you have—right now.
90% of what we worry about never happens: 90% of what happens to us we never have a chance to worry about. You gotta love it.