THE BODY SPEAKS
Sensory, insightful, and unapologetically human
The BodyJoy blog is a space for exploring intimacy, embodiment, and pleasure beyond performance. Rooted in sexological bodywork, somatic sex education, and shadow integration, this blog invites you to listen to your body’s wisdom, embrace curiosity, and deepen connection—within yourself and with others.
Daddyhood, Ropes, and the Joy of Control: A Conversation with JD (Lifestyle Dom)
Join us as we talk with Lifestyle Dom JD (Two Knotty Boys) about the profound maturity and intentionality within the…
The gift of novelty: Reigniting passion in long-term relationship
Is sexual boredom dimming the spark in your stable relationship? Learn how to start reigniting passion in long-term relationship using…
Sexological Bodywork: 12 Powerful Transformations You’ll Experience
Discover the benefits of sexological bodywork in Austin. Learn 12 powerful ways this body-based practice helps you heal, awaken, and…
Temple Night: Sacred Intimacy Practices to Electrify Your Next Date Night
Forget date night—create Temple Night. Sacred intimacy practices that electrify your connection, awaken presence, and bring passion back into your…
Mental Blocks During Sex: Is Your Mind Cock-Blocking Your Pleasure?
Learn how mental blocks during sex are signals from your body—not failures. Discover somatic tools to reconnect, heal, and reclaim…
When Something Feels “Off” – How to Have a Clearing Conversation
Learn how to have a clearing conversation to repair connection, clear emotional static, and deepen intimacy in your relationship—step-by-step guidance…
Honoring Our Founder
Charla Hathaway is a PhD. Sexologist, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Surrogate Partner Therapist, and founder of Austin’s BodyJoy Intimacy School.
How My Work Compliments Talk Therapy & Sex Therapy
I help clients shift habitual patterns and develop new pathways for pleasure and presence through tools like breath, sound, movement,…
Tantrika vs. My Practice: What’s the Difference?
Whether you’re drawn to the mysticism and spirituality of Tantra or the grounded, body-centered education of somatic sex work, both…
Preparing for Somatic Sex Education: A Checklist
Wherever you are in your journey, know that sexual healing is possible through somatic sex education. Pleasure is your birthright.…
The Power of Erotic Immersion Days: A Deep Dive into Your Erotic Self
An Erotic Immersion Day is a guided, transformative experience rooted in the principles of sexological bodywork, embodiment coaching, and somatic…
When we feel pressure to sexually perform
Our culture has conditioned men to tie their worth and desirability to performance, output, and control. And intimacy becomes yet…
How to Be Present During Sex: What Women Actually Crave
Learn how to be present during sex and become the confident, connected lover women crave. Presence—not performance—is the secret to…
Sex Positive Theater Show in Austin: Charla Hathaway’s One-Woman Erotic Journey
Experience Charla Hathaway’s award-winning sex positive theater show in Austin. One weekend only—two unforgettable performances full of humor, healing, and…
Edging to last longer…
The practice of edging can enhance your orgasm intensity and sexual confidence...
