Let’s not down play or ignore the great benefits of self pleasure. Most of us “jerk off” or feverishly “rub one” out without giving it much thought… But darling… it is and can be SO much more! Learn how you too can shift your own patterned self pleasure go-to from predictable and ordinary to extraordinary …
How satisfied are you when it comes to your intimate life? Both clients and friends share with me that though they know it’s important, their sex, intimacy, and play, tends to fall last on the list of important things “to-do”. They say that often when it comes time to focus on finally doing it, they’re zapped …
I asked a male companion what he liked best about me after we’d spent a few days together. It was kinda a dare, but I was in the mood to hear something good about myself. He answered easily, ”You seem to really enjoy being touched.” And he added a second ‘liking’ without me prompting, “And you seem to enjoy touching me.”
Location: Kurszentrum BodySpace, Engweg 3, 8006 Zürich Date: September 8, 2017 | Time: 7pm – 10pm Register Here Mmm, that glorious moment when we are giving (or getting) exactly the touch that feels good on our body! Sometimes we find that “sweet spot” spontaneously, but more often, we find it through clear communication and feedback. …
A New Pill for Women—Low Sexual Desire? Big Pharma’s spent billions on a female Viagra. Women now suffer from–drum roll–Low Sexual Desire that can be fixed with Big Pharma’s answer—a new drug, Flibanserin. Actually, in today’s world low sexual desire in women is a sign of health—women are so tired of status quo sex they are …
A friend shared a dating book with me that made a huge difference in his shy, inexperienced life—you’d never recognize that in him now! I gleaned a few new tips. Don’t read on if you’re stuck on finding ‘The One.’ I’m personally giving it up for awhile. How to Enjoy Dating Never put all your …
What a wonderful image I hold in my mind after teaching my day workshop, The Sweet Spot: How to Give and Get the Touch You Want. I looked over a room of 22 folks, soft with pleasure, their bodies draped over backjacks chairs, their faces peaceful and content. We had found such simple and satisfying …
1) Old folks don’t have sex: One of the most loving things older folks can tell young people is the truth about their sexuality and that sex often gets better with age. Young people feel pressured and frantic to do it now and get it right because soon it will go away. Having elders talk …
Orgasms, Cougars, and Wizards: Charla busts 8 Myths of Sex and Aging Read More »
When I was at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, I read the following ten basic sexual rights for adults, like a Bill of Rights about being a sexual being. Imagine a world where such basic rights were articulated, understood and upheld. Basic Sexual Rights of Adults [PDF]
A newcomer to Tango dancing, I’m inspired to share the many parallels I see between this intimate, elegant dance and what I teach as a sex coach about intimate, elegant sex. In the sensual dance of Tango, the man becomes the container for the dance, and the woman, the movement. The man forms the foundation, …
Sex and Tango: Notes from a Sex Coach and Tango Dancer Read More »
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