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A newcomer to Tango dancing, I’m inspired to share the many parallels I see between this intimate, elegant dance and what I teach as a sex coach about intimate, elegant sex.     In the sensual dance of Tango, the man becomes the container for the dance, and the woman, the movement.  The man forms the foundation, […]

A newcomer to Tango dancing, I’m inspired to share the many parallels I see between this intimate, elegant dance and what I teach as a sex coach about intimate, elegant sex.     In the sensual dance of Tango, the man becomes the container for the dance, the woman, the movement.  The man forms the mold, the

As a sex and Intimacy coach I decided since porn is a big part of today’s sex scene, I’d better know more about it, so I spent a good couple months watching…lots.  Very interesting experiment, I didn’t even need a vibrator. Instead of trying to answer whether pornography is good or bad, I decided you

I just finished teaching my daylong workshop, Tantric Loving & Massage for Couples.  Warning…I’m still high. In one day, a group of twelve fidgety strangers, embarked on a melting journey of erotic exploration. They created the necessary confidentiality, safety and protection along the way.  Together, with breath, each dropped awareness from heady things into the

A young man comes to see me for sex coaching who is feeling shy, awkward and inexperienced with his older girlfriend.  She usually initiates their sex and says she wants more passion from him.  He really likes her and even thinks she’s the one–yet, the sex part of the relationship causes him much worry because he

Ask yourself, “How does it feel to be loved by someone?”  And then ask, “How does it feel to be desired by someone?”  You may be surprised how differently love and desire feel in relationship. Being loved feels comfortable, secure, anchored, being taken care of.   Love feels safe and secure, like a melting together.   Yet, love is

With all of our years of sexual innovation and acceptance, some people still find it hard to talk about sex and to live a sexually healthy lifestyle. While being sexually healthy may seem like I’m referring to practicing safe sex, avoiding unwanted pregnancy and making smart decisions, it’s actually that and so much more. Living